Friday, November 9, 2018
https://cac.org/unity-in-differentiation-2018-11-09/
“union differentiates.”
~Pierre Teilhard de Chardin
~Pierre Teilhard de Chardin
We often think of love in terms of merging, uniting, becoming one, but Teilhard was wary of such definitions; his practiced eye as an evolutionist taught him something quite different.
True union . . . doesn’t turn its respective participants into a blob, a drop dissolving into the ocean. Rather, it presses them mightily to become more and more themselves: to discover, trust, and fully inhabit their own depths. As these depths open, so does their capacity to love, to give-and-receive of themselves. . . .❤️
The term “codependency” was not yet current in Teilhard’s day, but he already had the gist of it intuitively.
He knew that love is not well served by collapsing into one another.
It is better served by standing one’s own ground within a flexible unity so that more, deeper, richer facets of personhood can glow forth in “a paroxysm of harmonised complexity.” ❤️
The poet Rilke (1875–1926), Teilhard’s contemporary and in many respects kindred spirit, is on exactly the same wavelength.
He asks in his Letters to a Young Poet:
. . . [F]or what would a union be of two people who are unclarified, unfinished, and still incoherent? It [love] is a high inducement for the individual to ripen, to become something in himself, to become world, to become world in himself for the sake of another person. ❤️
To become world in oneself for the sake of another. . . .” Hmmmm. Does love really ask us to become world?
Does love make worlds? Is that what love does?
Suppose [love] is . . . an alchemical process: a tender and vulnerable journey of self-disclosure, risk, intimacy, yearning, and generativity whose ley lines are carved into the planet itself.❤️
The whole universe story has come into being because God is a hidden treasure who longs to be known.
And the way—the only way—this knowing can be released is in the dance of unity-in-differentiation which is the native language of love.
If it takes a whole village to raise a child, it takes a whole cosmos to bear forth the depths of divine love.
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